This ONLY MY OPINION and you are welcome to add yours, just let's play nicely!
If you are guy who just got here (or any other websites for singles) you must read all the advices regarding how to get attention from the opposite sex, or just rely on your own...OK let's be honest- some stuff is more obvious to other people than yourself so keep reading!
10 DON'Ts
1)DON'T USE PICTURE WITH YOUR EX IN IT! Do you have a picture in your portfolio with your ex wife, girlfriend cut out?...where U can see her hair , hand on you?...where I SEE YOU BEING HAPPY WITH HER?.....it's a turn off..COMPLEET TURN OFF FOR ME !don't bother to wink..
2)Don't take a shirt off for a picture unless you have my colleges models torso with 6 puck BIG TIME NO! NOT A BIG DEAL -I PERSONALY DON"T CARE ABOUT 6 pucks, just keep the shirt on!..a little wonder will do the trick
3)I know you ALL want to score here and most of man overconfident about their appearance. Please think twice when you saying HOT in your profile and you are bold, have a front of a 6 months pregnant woman and wearing boxers!
4)DON"T try to become #1 by trashing other guys out there! Please! It's sending a message that you are 1)jealous ( and it's no reason to do so)2)not or over confident 3)trying to be someone you are really not and plus not being positive about others making you look like a looser...I'm not saying there are only great guys but why concentrate on others when you suppose to get my attention?
5)THINK TWICE before you making a nickname - if you are
in you're 40th than you already know that anything with cazanova69 will not work if you want to score with intelligent woman for 50-something guy who's name "healthyandsexy" it's a turn off..what kind of message you trying to send? you are eating with or you are eating just before sex? or better off you are turned on by food? For any age guy - You know that you nickname is should be a bit of a fun + truth - you are graduate from somewhere, so take a moment before you create something like a NAME
6)Say nice complement about woman's eyes, hands, body and soul..tell her she is amazing ... in other hands message like "YO BABE - U R hot mama!".... well ..how many times do you think I heard that one?
7)If you are dating someone or still in the marriage and trying to lie here ...one way or another it dishonesty..and makes you a liar! I hate lie (and I don't use word "hate " often)
8)Don't criticize a woman who rejects you ( by attacking for the rejections of conversation or annoying with chats that she is keep closing you are not scoring anything!She has her reasons and not at liberty to waist time explaining it to you! sorry we all have only 24 hours in the day and it's valuable!
9)Don't beg for a phone number - give yours if she think it's worth it -she will call or say yes !
10)Don't make empty promises...........
This ONLY MY OPINION and you are welcome to add yours, just let's play nicely!
If you are guy who just got here (or any other websites for singles) you must read all the advices regarding how to get attention from the opposite sex, or just rely on your own...OK let's be honest- some stuff is more obvious to other people than yourself so keep reading!
10 DON'Ts
1)DON'T USE PICTURE WITH YOUR EX IN IT! Do you have a picture in your portfolio with your ex wife, girlfriend cut out?...where U can see her hair , hand on you?...where I SEE YOU BEING HAPPY WITH HER?.....it's a turn off..COMPLEET TURN OFF FOR ME !don't bother to wink..
2)Don't take a shirt off for a picture unless you have my colleges models torso with 6 puck BIG TIME NO! NOT A BIG DEAL -I PERSONALY DON"T CARE ABOUT 6 pucks, just keep the shirt on!..a little wonder will do the trick
3)I know you ALL want to score here and most of man overconfident about their appearance. Please think twice when you saying HOT in your profile and you are bold, have a front of a 6 months pregnant woman and wearing boxers!
4)DON"T try to become #1 by trashing other guys out there! Please! It's sending a message that you are 1)jealous ( and it's no reason to do so)2)not or over confident 3)trying to be someone you are really not and plus not being positive about others making you look like a looser...I'm not saying there are only great guys but why concentrate on others when you suppose to get my attention?
5)THINK TWICE before you making a nickname - if you are
in you're 40th than you already know that anything with cazanova69 will not work if you want to score with intelligent woman for 50-something guy who's name "healthyandsexy" it's a turn off..what kind of message you trying to send? you are eating with or you are eating just before sex? or better off you are turned on by food? For any age guy - You know that you nickname is should be a bit of a fun + truth - you are graduate from somewhere, so take a moment before you create something like a NAME
6)Say nice complement about woman's eyes, hands, body and soul..tell her she is amazing ... in other hands message like "YO BABE - U R hot mama!".... well ..how many times do you think I heard that one?
7)If you are dating someone or still in the marriage and trying to lie here ...one way or another it dishonesty..and makes you a liar! I hate lie (and I don't use word "hate " often)
8)Don't criticize a woman who rejects you ( by attacking for the rejections of conversation or annoying with chats that she is keep closing you are not scoring anything!She has her reasons and not at liberty to waist time explaining it to you! sorry we all have only 24 hours in the day and it's valuable!
9)Don't beg for a phone number - give yours if she think it's worth it -she will call or say yes !
Thank you..I did realise that..to days later (well I never been into situation like that) I had some wired guy thing..even when I was married some one would come up to our table and start talking directly to me even my hubby was there..I happened to have add reaction from opposite sex but NOT THIS KIND and actually my friend told me ..since this MIGHT BE a con artist I'm lucky enough that it was actually so easy ...Well I lost my sense..I don't want anything anymore...I had 2015 emails and wink and something else thing in the last two weeks and went on the 2 BAD dates...I feel like getting into my routing - do my business and take care of my boys...I really think it's will work the best...I have to understand if people are so much calls NORMAL (some how normal) are out there ;-) Hugs, Olga
Thank you..I did realise that..to days later (well I never been into situation like that) I had some wired guy thing..even when I was married some one would come up to our table and start talking directly to me even my hubby was there..I happened to have add reaction from opposite sex but NOT THIS KIND and actually my friend told me ..since this MIGHT BE a con artist I'm lucky enough that it was actually so easy ...Well I lost my sense..I don't want anything anymore...I had 2015 emails and wink and something else thing in the last two weeks and went on the 2 BAD dates...I feel like getting into my routing - do my business and take care of my boys...I really think it's will work the best...I have to understand if people are so much calls NORMAL (some how normal) are out there ;-) Hugs, Olga
I agree, most likely a con man, who perhaps figured you got enough out of the first husband to be worth targeting. The only other possibility that comes to mind is the "anal car guy" type....the ones who clean their wheels with a toothbrush, and go ballistic if you were to ask to bring your drink with you in his car. To see you in a three year old car was just below his standards. I know a few like that, and most women find they turn out to be control freaks, too. "Wear this," "cut your hair like that," "lose that two pounds you've put on," etc.
Or, he could have just been a jerk !!!! Plenty of those of BOTH sexes.
I would suggest you look back a day later, and count your blessings. You really got a great gift in those few seconds. Consider the great good fortune you had....to NOT spend any time with him. Most of the time we only learn that after investing an evening, a dinner, a week, a month....etc. So, look at this great bright side !!!!!!
CG
On the car / drive off story:
I agree, most likely a con man, who perhaps figured you got enough out of the first husband to be worth targeting. The only other possibility that comes to mind is the "anal car guy" type....the ones who clean their wheels with a toothbrush, and go ballistic if you were to ask to bring your drink with you in his car. To see you in a three year old car was just below his standards. I know a few like that, and most women find they turn out to be control freaks, too. "Wear this," "cut your hair like that," "lose that two pounds you've put on," etc.
Or, he could have just been a jerk !!!! Plenty of those of BOTH sexes.
I would suggest you look back a day later, and count your blessings. You really got a great gift in those few seconds. Consider the great good fortune you had....to NOT spend any time with him. Most of the time we only learn that after investing an evening, a dinner, a week, a month....etc. So, look at this great bright side !!!!!!
THANK YOU DARLING! I just felt like ...last year I went to ohter state(I did fly actually) to see someone (and I"m always paying for my own travel, just the rule) and the guy start being unbelievably rude...in the airport..(no flowers for the first time meeting is NO NO!!)not just offering a help with my luggage but telling me - it has a wheels..why would you need any help?...it was WRONG from the begging ..and I couldn't believe how nice he was on the phone for a MONTH!..he said it's about time someone would show my my place...Oh my..it was a last year...it put me off with the whole dating bs...this year ...hm...what am I magnet for an idiots? I want a nice brainy, sexy, non womanizer guy not a twisted freak!...and I WILL FIND HIM!!!... or he will find me!
THANK YOU DARLING! I just felt like ...last year I went to ohter state(I did fly actually) to see someone (and I"m always paying for my own travel, just the rule) and the guy start being unbelievably rude...in the airport..(no flowers for the first time meeting is NO NO!!)not just offering a help with my luggage but telling me - it has a wheels..why would you need any help?...it was WRONG from the begging ..and I couldn't believe how nice he was on the phone for a MONTH!..he said it's about time someone would show my my place...Oh my..it was a last year...it put me off with the whole dating bs...this year ...hm...what am I magnet for an idiots? I want a nice brainy, sexy, non womanizer guy not a twisted freak!...and I WILL FIND HIM!!!... or he will find me!
Yes ..it was exactly like I described...and I think you are right...If man has no picture and he is hiding ...It's a fishy stuff...and part of the scam...You would think by 40 people get a little wiser...neee
Yes ..it was exactly like I described...and I think you are right...If man has no picture and he is hiding ...It's a fishy stuff...and part of the scam...You would think by 40 people get a little wiser...neee
Is that the entire story??!!! He just drove up, asked the year of your car, didn't like what he heard and he drove away??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Alt, I'd say you need to have yourself one hell of a good laugh over this creep and move on. Put the experience in your list of FUNNIEST THINGS EVER. There's a ton of reasons this guy may have done that....but I suspect he may have had some kind of scam in mind. But when your car turned out to be 3 years old, his planned scam soured. Or he was just a super snob. Or....or....or. You could go on speculating forever and never come up with the right answer. Here's an idea. Through a Girlfriends Only party and make the theme: What Did BMW man want? Ten to one you'll have a lot more fun at that party than you would have had with BMW man if he'd stuck around long enough to buy you a couple of drinks and an appetizer... Pat
Is that the entire story??!!! He just drove up, asked the year of your car, didn't like what he heard and he drove away??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Alt, I'd say you need to have yourself one hell of a good laugh over this creep and move on. Put the experience in your list of FUNNIEST THINGS EVER. There's a ton of reasons this guy may have done that....but I suspect he may have had some kind of scam in mind. But when your car turned out to be 3 years old, his planned scam soured. Or he was just a super snob. Or....or....or. You could go on speculating forever and never come up with the right answer. Here's an idea. Through a Girlfriends Only party and make the theme: What Did BMW man want? Ten to one you'll have a lot more fun at that party than you would have had with BMW man if he'd stuck around long enough to buy you a couple of drinks and an appetizer... Pat
I'M RUSSIAN - many people mistaken me for German - it's common...We have a rough language...Anyway I learned my English from scratch, when I met my ex - it was great experience ;-)
I'M RUSSIAN - many people mistaken me for German - it's common...We have a rough language...Anyway I learned my English from scratch, when I met my ex - it was great experience ;-)
OK THANK YOU LADIES! LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU!!! -GUESS WHAT?! I had a date today! LADIES I WANT TO KNOW YOUR opinion...I have not dated in the while...I had a boyfriend for a year (while divorce..lonely time) and TODAY IT WAS MY FIRST- I can't call it a date..I came to the parking lot of the restaurant..white denim, high heals and hair done as I did my modeling audition, I'm driving BMW - he said that he has too..soo I came and he drove by me..open the window and ask WHAT YEAR IS YOUR CAR ? I'm like//WHAT? he - WHAT YEAR? ok..it's 2007 WHY? nothing he said..AND DROVESS AWAY!!! I couldn't believe my eyes! I had a dates that wasn't that great..but this one...oh my god? What is it with me? him? ...OR I"M LOST...PEASE EDUCATE ME!..I Have no idea
OK THANK YOU LADIES! LOVE TO HEAR FROM YOU!!! -GUESS WHAT?! I had a date today! LADIES I WANT TO KNOW YOUR opinion...I have not dated in the while...I had a boyfriend for a year (while divorce..lonely time) and TODAY IT WAS MY FIRST- I can't call it a date..I came to the parking lot of the restaurant..white denim, high heals and hair done as I did my modeling audition, I'm driving BMW - he said that he has too..soo I came and he drove by me..open the window and ask WHAT YEAR IS YOUR CAR ? I'm like//WHAT? he - WHAT YEAR? ok..it's 2007 WHY? nothing he said..AND DROVESS AWAY!!! I couldn't believe my eyes! I had a dates that wasn't that great..but this one...oh my god? What is it with me? him? ...OR I"M LOST...PEASE EDUCATE ME!..I Have no idea
Oh, my goodness, do I KNOW you're being silly... Plus....I'm now lost. Which male friend are we referring to? I have a few. [unfortunately, they are all just friends....] As for "multiplying," my friend, if I started "multiplying" at my age---we--everyone on here I call a friend--would be rich as Croesus. 65-year-old women don't "multiply" unless they are completely MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [It is possible, by the way....but I think it's SICK!!!!!!!!!!!. Give birth at 65. Kid graduates high school at 18; you're 83??????????????????? If you live that long.... Pure selfishness on the part of any idiot who would get pregnant at 65. Pure selfishness indeed. Yours truly, Pat the Opinionated....[who said that!!!! Who called me that, damnit. I'll kick 'em....] Good night from PTO
Quoting Timberoo
What did your Male friend say, Pat????! Just c u r i o u s(our li'l secret!) HOW ABOUT A FOLLOW UP==>10 DO'S!!!!!!
P.S. YO BABE! YUR "HOT" WANNA MULTIPLY, HON? 2X2 =4 3X5=15 777X3=2331 HEHEHAHA YOOOOO BAYYYYYBEEEEE! HAHA HADDA DO IT!!!!! WHAT MEL-LOONS.... WHAT'S LIFE WITHOUT SOME FUN, YA'LL!
I hope you see I'm bein', silly!
Quoting Timberoo
What did your Male friend say, Pat????! Just c u r i o u s(our li'l secret!) HOW ABOUT A FOLLOW UP==>10 DO'S!!!!!!
P.S. YO BABE! YUR "HOT" WANNA MULTIPLY, HON? 2X2 =4 3X5=15 777X3=2331 HEHEHAHA YOOOOO BAYYYYYBEEEEE! HAHA HADDA DO IT!!!!! WHAT MEL-LOONS.... WHAT'S LIFE WITHOUT SOME FUN, YA'LL!
I hope you see I'm bein', silly!
Oh, my goodness, do I KNOW you're being silly... Plus....I'm now lost. Which male friend are we referring to? I have a few. [unfortunately, they are all just friends....] As for "multiplying," my friend, if I started "multiplying" at my age---we--everyone on here I call a friend--would be rich as Croesus. 65-year-old women don't "multiply" unless they are completely MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [It is possible, by the way....but I think it's SICK!!!!!!!!!!!. Give birth at 65. Kid graduates high school at 18; you're 83??????????????????? If you live that long.... Pure selfishness on the part of any idiot who would get pregnant at 65. Pure selfishness indeed. Yours truly, Pat the Opinionated....[who said that!!!! Who called me that, damnit. I'll kick 'em....] Good night from PTO
Hello, Olga You are quite wrong when you say: Looks like the closest person to you is the ONE you HARDLY CAN TALK TO! why? do we try to avoid hurting their feelings? ...but then we hurting ours! do we know that if we say something it will not change anything, so why try?.. I was talking about a pure FRIEND. Not a potential lover.... BUT.... My friend, are you German? I detect a "GERMAN ACCENT" in you're writing. And I must confess that although I have a lot of experience trying to understand a thick German accent...I am still often way off the mark. [nothing to do with money....] And now, Olga---I've completely lost track of what the heck I was talking about. ROFLMAO!!!!!! So....on that note....I will sign off for now.... Just know that whatever Sophia2048 says to you....you should listen to it. She is absolutely brilliant when it comes to men. I don't know how she got that way---voodoo, no doubt. Something sinister....we call her DEVIL WOMAN....doesn't matter. She is a woman to be heeded for sure....
Hello, Olga You are quite wrong when you say: Looks like the closest person to you is the ONE you HARDLY CAN TALK TO! why? do we try to avoid hurting their feelings? ...but then we hurting ours! do we know that if we say something it will not change anything, so why try?.. I was talking about a pure FRIEND. Not a potential lover.... BUT.... My friend, are you German? I detect a "GERMAN ACCENT" in you're writing. And I must confess that although I have a lot of experience trying to understand a thick German accent...I am still often way off the mark. [nothing to do with money....] And now, Olga---I've completely lost track of what the heck I was talking about. ROFLMAO!!!!!! So....on that note....I will sign off for now.... Just know that whatever Sophia2048 says to you....you should listen to it. She is absolutely brilliant when it comes to men. I don't know how she got that way---voodoo, no doubt. Something sinister....we call her DEVIL WOMAN....doesn't matter. She is a woman to be heeded for sure....
Hi there PAT! Should I say THANK YOU?.. no.. I'm honored to hear from a woman that I'm right at some state..I wonder how many times women were trying to say something that bother them to their mates, husbands and lovers ...but they can't! Looks like the closest person to you is the ONE you HARDLY CAN TALK TO! why? do we try to avoid hurting their feelings? ...but then we hurting ours! do we know that if we say something it will not change anything, so why try?..maybe all in the above..I've seen a nice guys here...boy oh boy I would marry him tomorrow, but if only I can pass through some unattractive physical futures..I've seen handsome and BIG times pigs, who think that every woman is for sale so it's all about the price... So I would love to find my and only guy...and I'm not on the rush..it's not a race...but to FIlTR THRU THE DAMB HEADS I had to wrtie ..as I can't take it no more...if it's so obvious to me, how they can't see it???
THANK YOU AGAIN,
Hug,
Olga
Hi there PAT! Should I say THANK YOU?.. no.. I'm honored to hear from a woman that I'm right at some state..I wonder how many times women were trying to say something that bother them to their mates, husbands and lovers ...but they can't! Looks like the closest person to you is the ONE you HARDLY CAN TALK TO! why? do we try to avoid hurting their feelings? ...but then we hurting ours! do we know that if we say something it will not change anything, so why try?..maybe all in the above..I've seen a nice guys here...boy oh boy I would marry him tomorrow, but if only I can pass through some unattractive physical futures..I've seen handsome and BIG times pigs, who think that every woman is for sale so it's all about the price... So I would love to find my and only guy...and I'm not on the rush..it's not a race...but to FIlTR THRU THE DAMB HEADS I had to wrtie ..as I can't take it no more...if it's so obvious to me, how they can't see it???
Altmodel, my dear---this blog is DELICIOUS. You have hit so many nails on the head. I completely concur, and vote "AYE" for all your proposals. RIGHT ON!!!!!!!!!!!!! Great stuff. In fact, I have a male friend here on MM who needs to hear this. I'm going to "forward" your post to him right now!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pat
Altmodel, my dear---this blog is DELICIOUS. You have hit so many nails on the head. I completely concur, and vote "AYE" for all your proposals. RIGHT ON!!!!!!!!!!!!! Great stuff. In fact, I have a male friend here on MM who needs to hear this. I'm going to "forward" your post to him right now!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pat
